Establishing Dreams and Goals

One of the amazing things we have been given as humans is the unquenchable desire to have dreams of a better life, and the ability to establish goals to live out those dreams. Think of it: We can look deep within our hearts and dream of a better situation for ourselves and our families; dream of better financial lives and better emotional or physical lives; certainly dream of better spiritual lives. But what makes this even more powerful is that we have also been given the ability to not only dream but to pursue those dreams and not only to pursue them, but the cognitive ability to actually lay out a plan and strategies (setting goals) to achieve those dreams. Powerful!

What are your dreams and goals? This isn’t what you already have or what you have done, but what you want. Have you ever really sat down and thought through your life values and decided what you really want? Have you ever taken the time to truly reflect, to listen quietly to your heart, to see what dreams live within you? Your dreams are there. Everyone has them. They may live right on the surface, or they may be buried deep from years of others telling you they were foolish, but they are there.

So how do we know what our dreams are? This is an interesting process and it relates primarily to the art of listening. This is not listening to others; it is listening to yourself. If we listen to others, we hear their plans and dreams (and many will try to put their plans and dreams on us). If we listen to others, we can never be fulfilled. We will only chase elusive dreams that are not rooted deep within us. No, we must listen to our own hearts.

Let’s take a look at some practical steps/thoughts on hearing from our hearts on what our dreams are:

Take time to be quiet. This is something that we don’t do enough in this busy world of ours. We rush, rush, rush, and we are constantly listening to noise all around us. The human heart was meant for times of quiet, to peer deep within. It is when we do this that our hearts are set free to soar and take flight on the wings of our own dreams! Schedule some quiet “dream time” this week. No other people. No cell phone. No computer. Just you, a pad, a pen, and your thoughts.

Think about what really thrills you. When you are quiet, think about those things that really get your blood moving. What would you LOVE to do, either for fun or for a living? What would you love to accomplish? What would you try if you were guaranteed to succeed? What big thoughts move your heart into a state of excitement and joy? When you answer these questions you will feel great and you will be in the “dream zone.” It is only when we get to this point that we experience what our dreams are!

Write down all of your dreams as you have them. Don’t think of any as too outlandish or foolish. Remember, you’re dreaming! Let the thoughts fly and take careful record.

Now, prioritize those dreams. Which are most important? Which are most feasible? Which would you love to do the most? Put them in the order in which you will actually try to attain them. Remember, we are always moving toward action, not just dreaming.

Here is the big picture: Life is too short to not pursue your dreams. Someday your life will near its end and all you will be able to do is look backward. You can reflect with joy or regret. Those who dream, who set goals and act on them to live out their dreams, are those who live lives of joy and have a sense of peace when they near the end of their lives. They have finished well, for themselves and for their families.

Remember: These are the dreams and goals that are born out of your heart and mind. These are the goals that are unique to you and come from who you were created to be and gifted to become. Your specific goals are what you want to attain because they are what will make your life joyful and bring your family’s life into congruence with what you want it to be.

by our Late Mentor Jim Rohn

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Action vs. Self-Delusion

Knowledge fueled by emotion equals action. Action is the ingredient that ensures results. Only action can cause reaction. Further, only positive action can cause positive reaction.

Action. The whole world loves to watch those who make things happen, and it rewards them for causing waves of productive enterprise.

today we see many people who are really sold on affirmations. And yet there is a famous saying that “Faith without action serves no useful purpose.” How true!

There is  nothing against affirmations as a tool to create action. Repeated to reinforce a disciplined plan, affirmations can help create wonderful results.

But there is also a very thin line between faith and folly. You see, affirmations without action can be the beginnings of self-delusion. And for your well-being there is little worse than self-delusion.

The man who dreams of wealth and yet walks daily toward certain financial disaster and the woman who wishes for happiness and yet thinks thoughts and commits acts that lead her toward certain despair are both victims of the false hope which affirmations without action can manufacture. Why? Because words soothe and, like a narcotic, they lull us into a state of complacency. Remember this: To Make Progress You Must Actually Get Started!

The key is to take a step today. Whatever the project, start today. Start clearing out a drawer of your newly organized desk… today. Start setting your first goal… today. Start listening to motivational programs… today. Start a sensible weight-reduction plan… today. Start calling on one tough customer a day… today. Start putting money in your new “investment for fortune” account… today. Write a long-overdue letter… today. Anyone can! Even an uninspired person can start reading inspiring books.

Get some momentum going on your new commitment for the good life. See how many activities you can pile on your new commitment to the better life. Go all out! Break away from the downward pull of gravity. Start your thrusters going. Prove to yourself that the waiting is over and the hoping is past—that faith and action have now taken charge.

It’s a new day, a new beginning for your new life. With discipline you will be amazed at how much progress you’ll be able to make. What have you got to lose except the guilt and fear of the past?

Now, I offer you this challenge: See how many things you can start and continue in this, the first day of your new beginning.

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CHOCOLATE PISTACHIO FUDGE

Ingredients

  • 350g dark chocolate (minimum 70% cocoa solids), chopped
  • 1 x 397g can condensed milk
  • 30g butter pinch salt
  • 150g pistachios

Method

  1. Put the chopped chocolate, condensed milk, butter and salt in a heavy-based pan on a low heat, and stir to melt.
  2. Put the nuts into a freezer bag and bash them with a rolling pin, until broken up into both big and little pieces.
  3. Add the nuts to the melted chocolate and condensed milk and stir well to mix.
  4. Pour and spatch this mixture into a foil tray 23cm square, smoothing the top.
  5. Let the fudge cool, and refrigerate until set. You can then cut it into small pieces approx. 3 x 2.25cm. Cutting 8 x 10 lines in the tin to give 64 pieces best achieves this.
  6. Once cut, it can be kept in the freezer – no need to thaw just eat straight away.

Serves: Makes 64 pieces of rich fudge

this is for the one loving chocolate ;-)) thanks again Nigella

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MARGARITA ICE CREAM

This is a cinch to make, and easy-easy-easy to eat. If you want to serve it in glasses with rims dipped in sugar and salt, by all means do. But it is so good that, even as someone who is not a committed ice cream eater and no kind of drinker, I find I can spoon it straight into my mouth from the container it’s chilled in.

Ingredients

  • 125ml lime juice
  • 2 x 15ml tablespoons Tequila
  • 3 x 15ml tablespoons Cointreau or Triple sec
  • 150g icing sugar or powdered sugar
  • 500ml double cream

Method

  1. Pour the lime juice, Tequila and Cointreau (or Triple sec) into a bowl and stir in the sugar to dissolve.
  2. Add the cream and then softly whip until thick and smooth but not stiff.
  3. Spoon this into an airtight container to freeze overnight. This ice cream does not need ripening (softening before serving), as it will not freeze too hard and melts speedily and voluptuously.

Serves: 6  , thanks again Nigella

this ice cream was finish very fast at my Party ;-))

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COCKTAIL SAUSAGES

If you want to have something hot to pass around on a tray, then cocktail sausages are what you’re after. There’s nothing fiddly to make, nothing to go right or wrong, and everyone loves them. These are not just any cocktail sausages: the sesame oil, honey and soy give them a sweet-savoury stickiness that is pretty well impossible to resist.

Ingredients

  • 1kg (75) cocktail sausages
  • 2 x 15ml tablespoons sesame oil
  • 125ml/150g honey
  • 2 x 15ml tablespoons soy sauce

Method

  1. Preheat the oven to 220°C/gas mark 7.
  2. Separate the sausages, if they are linked, and arrange in a large, shallow-sided roasting tin.
  3. Whisk together the oil, honey and soy sauce and pour over the sausages, then use your hands – or a couple of spatulas – to move everything about in the pan so that all the sausages are slicked.
  4. Roast for 25-30 minutes; give them a shuffle about halfway through cooking if you happen to be near the oven.

Serves: Makes 75

Thanks so much Nigella .;-)

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16 Great Tips: Fighting Fat After 40! or Before ;-)

16 Fat Loss Tips to get your started so you can bask in all those other health benefits that come along with it.

1. Eat more fruits: Studies at Penn State University proved that increasing fruit intake helps facilitate weight loss.

2. Drink tea: research suggests that those who drink tea, have lower BMI’s and have less body fat

3. Lift weights. Build more muscle, burn more calories.

4. Start meals with a salad and low-fat dressing. Salad will provide some bulk to help fill you up, so you eat less calories overall.

5. Eat more protein. Replacing refined carbohydrates with lean protein will not only help satiate you, but will also increase your metabolism.

6. Eat more veggies. They fill you up, without providing many calories. Just avoid the high fat/high calorie dressings.

7. Include low-fat water based soups as snacks with meals. This will help fill you up and decrease the amount of calories and fat you consume.

8. Don’t forget the fiber. Think of fiber like a sponge; it absorbs water and makes you feel full.

9. Lift heavy to build muscle. Put down the pink 1-lb. dumbbells and push some iron. Don’t worry; you won’t get “too big.” What you’ll get is a fat burning machine.

10. Bump up the intensity – make your workouts count!

11. Take a walk. The more calories you can burn each day, the better.

12. Replace one meal/day with a large salad and lean proteins. 13. Portion control. Avoid the buffet line and never super size a thing; instead make sure you’re following what the nutrition label recommends for a serving.

14. Switch to calorie-free drinks. All calories count, whether they’re liquid or solid, so unless it’s milk, opt for tea or water.

15. Don’t drink juice; eat the whole fruit. The whole fruit provides more nutrients and fills you up more.

16. Eat breakfast. A review published in the American Journal of Clinical Nutrition showed that those who ate breakfast were more successful with long-term weight maintenance. Other research has shown the same for weight loss. Grab a yogurt, a piece of fruit, or make a smoothie. It doesn’t have to be fancy.

By Christopher R. Mohr, eDiets.com

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THE PREVENTABLE CAUSES OF DEATH IN THE UNITED STATES

This 2009 Harvard study demonstrates the importance of:

•               Giving up Smoking

•               Controlling High Blood Pressure by exercise, diet and medications

•               Getting off of the couch and walking and/or exercising daily

•               Reducing Salt in our food

•               Increasing Omega-3 Fats in our diet or taking an Omega-3 supplement

•               Controlling Blood Glucose via diet, exercise and medication

•               Lowering LDL Cholesterol via diet, exercise and medication

•               Limiting Alcohol consumption

•               Increasing Fruit and Vegetable consumption

•               Using more vegetable oils in cooking and reducing intake of animal source and saturated fats

•               Taking a one-a-day multivitamin

From the summary:

In 2005,

Tobacco smoking and high blood pressure were responsible for an estimated 467,000 deaths, accounting for about one in five or six deaths in US adults.

Overweight–obesity and physical inactivity were each responsible for nearly 1 in 10 deaths.

High dietary salt, low dietary omega-3 fatty acids, and high dietary trans fatty acids were the dietary risks with the largest mortality effects.

Although 26,000 deaths from ischemic heart disease, ischemic stroke, and diabetes were averted by current alcohol use, they were outweighed by 90,000 deaths from other cardiovascular diseases, cancers, liver cirrhosis, pancreatitis, alcohol use disorders, road traffic and other injuries, and violence.

Smoking and high blood pressure, which both have effective interventions, are responsible for the largest number of deaths in the US. Other dietary, lifestyle, and metabolic risk factors for chronic diseases also cause a substantial number of deaths in the US.

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The Secret Power of Protein

Most people know that losing weight boils down to eating fewer calories and/or exercising more. That’s what nutritionists tell us.

University of Washington researchers have found that protein has a strong effect on appetite, perhaps one key reason why so many dieters have successfully dropped pounds on high-protein diets.

The surprising part is that how many carbohydrate calories are in your diet has nothing to do with the weight loss. The study found that simply increasing the amount of protein in your diets can help you lose weight, even if you don’t cut back on carbohydrates at all.

In the study, researchers had subjects bump up protein intake to 30 percent. Fat was reduced to 20 percent.

Within three months the subjects had lost an average of 11 pounds, even though half of the calories they ate still came from carbohydrates. People on the modified diet reported feeling satisfied with less food. In other words, they lost weight because they consumed fewer calories, not because they ate fewer carbohydrates.

Researchers are still trying to figure out exactly how protein has more control over hunger than other nutrients. One possibility is that it makes the central nervous system more sensitive to leptin, a hormone that tells your body when it has stored enough fat.

What researchers do know, however, is that even slightly increasing the amount of protein you eat can help you lose weight without having to banish carbohydrates from your diet.

Pumping up protein intake by just 5 to 10 percent could make a difference, says Colleen Matthys, a bio-nutritionist and one of the study’s researchers.

Previous research has shown protein also helps keep the brain alert. Ever notice that a high-carbohydrate lunch can leave you dragging through the afternoon?

Carbohydrates can make you feel tired—and hungry for an energy boost—because they increase the brain’s level of the amino acid tryptophan, which in turns spurs the brain to make the calming neurotransmitter serotonin. Protein, on the other hand, prompts the brain to manufacture norepinephrine and dopamine, chemical messengers that promote alertness and activity.

Protein is also an essential component of every cell in the body, and we need it to repair and replenish our skin, bones and muscle tissue, as well as for enzymes, hormones and other chemicals. But carbs are equally important, despite their bad rep. Carbs are the brain’s main fuel.

Protein’s natural power of appetite suppression should be implemented cautiously, Matthys says. She suggests you eat low-fat diary products, beans, fish and lean cuts of meat, such as skinless chicken and turkey breasts.

By Catherine Shu, Ediets.com

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Breakfast: Don’t Leave Home Without It

With mounting evidence in favor of consuming breakfast, it is becoming clearer that breakfast may indeed be the most important meal of the day.

Breakfast Benefits

Studies examining eating habits suggest that the regular consumption of breakfast can: • Reduce risk of obesity and high cholesterol.

• Decrease insulin resistance (a condition that increases risk of type 2 diabetes and heart disease).

• Improve performance on memory-related tasks.

• Minimize impulsive snacking and overeating at other meals.

• Increase intake of essential nutrients that are rarely replenished by other meals of the day.

• Enhance school performance in children and young adults.

Quality Counts

Think of breakfast as the perfect opportunity to start accumulating the minimum five servings of fruits and vegetables and three servings of whole grains recommended for optimal health.

The National Academy of Sciences recommends adults consume 21 to 38 grams of fiber a day. Whole grains, fruits, vegetables, beans, nuts and seeds are the best sources of dietary fiber. High-fiber foods have the added benefit of warding off mid-morning snack attacks by creating a feeling of fullness. Likewise, adding some protein – such as seafood, low-fat dairy products, skinless poultry, egg or egg substitute – can also aid in suppressing hunger.

A lack of appetite in the morning may be the result of a large meal or snack consumed the night before. Perk up your morning appetite by eating lighter – and earlier – in the evenings.

Try blending a mixture of either low-fat milk, low-fat yogurt or soy milk with fruit, 100 percent fruit juice and your favorite spices or flavor extract. Oat bran, wheat germ or ground flax seed can be added for extra fiber.

So start your day the healthy way by fueling up with a nutritious breakfast!

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The Most Important Meal of the Day

While adults need to eat breakfast each day to perform their best, kids need it even more. Their growing bodies and developing brains rely heavily on the regular intake of food. When kids skip breakfast, they can end up going for as long as eighteen hours without food, and this period of semi starvation can create a lot of physical, intellectual and behavioral problems for them.

A Good Investment

If you and your kids regularly skip breakfast in the interest of saving time or getting a few more minutes of sleep, remember that eating a wholesome, nutritious morning meal will probably save you time in the long run. By recharging your brain and your body, you’ll be more efficient in just about everything you do. Interestingly, studies show that kids who skip breakfast are tardy and absent from school more often than children who eat breakfast on a regular basis.

Preparing a good breakfast can be as quick and easy as splashing some milk over cereal. Time invested in breakfast is much more valuable than the few extra minutes of sleep you might get by bypassing the morning meal. If you and your kids seem unable to make time for breakfast, consider enrolling your children in a school breakfast program, if possible, or pack a breakfast brown-bag the night before so that you and your kids can eat on the way to school and work.

Break the Fast to Shed the Pounds

Some people skip breakfast in an effort to lose weight, but the practice is more likely to cause weight gain than weight loss. Skipping breakfast is strongly linked to the development of obesity. Studies show that overweight and obese children, adolescents, and adults are less likely to break the fast each morning than their thinner counterparts.

According to research, skipping meals, especially breakfast, can actually make weight control more difficult. Breakfast skippers tend to eat more food than usual at the next meal or nibble on high-calorie snacks to stave off hunger. Several studies suggest that people tend to accumulate more body fat when they eat fewer, larger meals than when they eat the same number of calories in smaller, more frequent meals. To teens, especially teenage girls, skipping breakfast may seem like a perfectly logical way to cut down on calories and lose weight. It’s important for moms to educate their kids about the importance of the morning meal and the role it plays in maintaining good health and preventing obesity.

article from Rallie McAllister

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